I called to check on Ruby this morning and she hasn’t gone into surgery yet, but she is expected soon. I wanted to talk with them about her return home and when she might be released. They said she would be there until at least Monday and that relieves me a lot. Her first few days/week will be spent under that 24/7 care at the hospital. I asked if she would be able to remain there longer, if I felt it necessary and they said yes it would be no problem to keep her there. I feel much more confident today than I did last night. More rested also. It’s a nerve racking process having to get thru this ordeal. I appreciate the responses and interest that we have gotten on this site so far. I’m glad that I spoke out and told our story as it is starting to unfold. I will see if I can get three days off in a row next week for when she does return home, but I do not think that I have put in for that time off soon enough. I do have a neighbor and some family that will be able to check on her, if I do have to work. Luckily my job is not very demanding and only takes up about six hours of my time, per shift. Sometimes I over analyze the situation, just to be sure I have it all covered. I will update as soon as I have word about how her surgery went or if I find myself with more questions. I will also look over the forum and see what I can discover there.
Like you, our dog Dollie went in for surgery yesterday. It hasn’t been easy on us not knowing what to expect. My best advice and what I plan on doing is to just act as normal as possible, I don’t want to transfer my fears and anxieties to her as she recovers and adjusts to her new reality. I wish for you and your dog all my best, and I will keep both of you in my prayers.
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That’s wonderful that your Vet is being so accommodating.
Just a thought. IF she does have her surgery today, you may think about bringing her home for the weekend and see how you and she handle things. That still gives her several extra days in the hospital and you may be surprised how well she will be doing by Saturday. If you do have to go to work Monday, she shoukd be fine just having someone check on her during the day.
In this journey, there’s no such thing as over thinking! We all do that so well around bere! Wedw rather be over prepared than under prel preparedared!! 🙂
Hang in there! Werew right here with you! Don’t hesitate to lean kn us a d ask any questions you may have! We understand how difficult it is getting to this point and getting through recovery
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Get some good rest! Update whe you can!
Hugs!
Sally and Alumni Happy Hannah and Merry Myrtle and Frankie too!
PS. Jim and Dollie! WELCOME! Let us know how shesq doing, okay
Hi Ruby & Family,
Super Stu’s Mum here… we just wanted to send our best wishes and prayers to you on this very demanding day. I can assure you that what you are feeling is normal… I thought I was going out of my mind, waiting for the call, to tell me that Stewie had made it through his surgery okay.
We’re not going to lie to you… the most difficult time is the 2 weeks following surgery. But with a lot of love, a tons of special food and treats, to help Ruby eat, tons of patience while your new Tripawd figures things out and did I mention tons of love?!!!
Yes, the first two weeks are very difficult, but the reward in seeing them and helping your pack mate through this time, is the most rewarding gift EVER!!!
I think Sally has an excellent suggestion, by bringing Ruby home for the weekend… just a thought on my end… she will feel a lot better being at home with her Pack, so long as you can stay strong for her, knowing that SHE WILL GET THROUGH THIS!!! She will amaze you every day, teaching you about what life should really be about… Enjoy every precious moment and don’t sweat the small stuff!
It was really important to stay in the moment during Stewie’s healing time. That was the only way to keep everything in balance. If I started to predict the worst, then my anxiety about it all would show through to Stewie.
Tripawds is an excellent venue for venting, asking questions or merely wanting to get things down on paper. I find it very comforting to know that lots of people have gone through what Stewie & I went through. Although it may seem like it sometimes, YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!
Take good care and thought & prayers are with you.
Sloppy kisses from Stewie👅🐾
& all the very best from his adoring pack,
Petra, Paul, Mr. Spike, Chester Molester & Miss Lily 🐾🐾🐾❤️
We are less than 2 months out from the amputation. Our girl ended up having a ruptured bladder after surgery and stayed 6 days after amputation and bladder surgery. I don’t know how much it helped her, but it helped us emmmencely to have a family member or 2 visit her in ICU daily. We were able to feed her and pet her.
I’ll be honest: I cried and cried the first time I saw here with her black coat shaved and missing a leg. I will also be honest and say that 7 weeks out she looks so perfect hopping around with different color hair growing.
The first few days can be rough like any major surgery. But, probably rougher on you!
You got this! And, this site has been such a blessing to me. I hope it will be for you.
Dear Ruby,
I’m on my 16th day after surgery. It may seem odd, but we are the ultimate adapters. I’m moving fine and if they let me do more, I would. I have learned to do stairs, jump on the bed, negotiate tile floors and do all other dogs essentials. I’m 70 pounds and don’t need the rear sling for my rear amputation anymore, but allow them to use it for my family’s peace of mind. Show how strong our adaptation capabilities are and “be more dog”!
Kind regards,
Idaho